A plain, unadorned hairstyle is standard amongst the male gender. It is considered masculine in popular Nairobi culture. Nature, on the other hand, dictates that a lady should be as distinct as possible. With African hair that’s often-times untidy and difficult to manage, many are forced to turn to chemicals for help. Unfortunately, the high cost of these products coupled with labor fees make frequent hair dressing a luxury.
According to the New International Bible dictionary “In the New Testament times the length of the hair was one mark of distinction between the sexes, and apostle Paul said that that distinction should continue, pointing out that even nature teaches that long hair is a shame for a man but a glory for a woman 1 Corinthians 11:14-16.” The style in which a lady’s hair is cut, arranged, and worn is important. A hairstyle is an unconscious indication of one's subconscious decision. Ladies with nice hair styles often arouse interest and pleasure towards them from their female colleagues and men. Often, they get noticed and attract more attention than those with fed-up hair styles. Consequently, many ladies have resulted to braiding their hair or wearing weaves, primarily because of convenience and aesthetics. Lately, weaves have come into fashion; they are admired and imitated by the masses. It is not clear whether Kenyan interest and enthusiasm in weaves will last. But braiding hair as female adornment never goes out of fashion. Ladies who prefer to be hairless, unadorned, or plain may not see the difference decorated hair makes in enhancing their femininity. According to some of them, hair length is an unimportant issue! Short simple hair has the power to attract attention. However, it does not have the power to sustain attention from urban males who are down with popular culture. A lady should be aware of her most striking facial feature e.g., color, form, texture, or shape. But she must bear in mind that this self- evaluation is subjective. Therefore, it is an idea or thought that exists in her mind that is influenced by her personal or individual point of view or feeling. It is not an impartial judgment that is free from her personal prejudice. Decorating one’s hair adds beauty to one’s personal appearance. When a woman’s face comes into view, her eyes, nose and mouth are more visible. Subconsciously, the viewer’s attention is drawn for a few seconds to a focal point- which makes us like or dislike what we see. Make-up enhances facial color and texture, but cannot direct the viewers taste. For this reason, hair can be used as a mount or frame that surrounds our face to make it look better. Decorating one’s hair adds distinction to a lady. To a hair dresser, hair is raw material that can form the basis of an imaginative composition. Hair is composed of an all over regular repeat pattern that can be manipulated to make simple or complex styles. A hair style is a result of an impression made by thread-like growths on the surface of the head. The pattern found in braids and plaits makes ones head more beautiful. Unlike braids, weaves can easily be mistaken for real hair. That's why weaves may be perceived for a fraction of a second by the subconscious mind of a sensitive male observer to communicate displeasure with one’s real hair. But, this is not always consciously obvious to casual observers because weaves are popular with the general public. In African culture white hair shows age or dignity. But a young lady who experiences quick-whitening of hair, which she dislikes, can dye her hair black, brown, or maroon depending on her skin tone. One should be careful with dye, as using many colors can make it visually confusing, therefore unattractive. Alluring beauty, charm and sex appeal may compensate for lacking hair. However, this is seldom the case as many ladies are not captivating and seductive enough to compensate for their gloomy hair styles. A lady with naturally short hair can therefore conveniently use attractive and stylish wigs, braids and weaves. About The Author John Kigada is a freelance writer and columnist. He is a youth minister and graduate of the East Africa School of Theology. » Post Comment
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1"u dont undertsand women." at Friday, 28 November 2008 10:09
It is my feeling that you clearly do not understand why a woman wears her hair short or with a weave or braids. You are automatically assuming that she does it to please men. This is a shallow, chauvinistic perception that many men, like you, have. The truth is women life their hair short (or fake) because it makes THEM feel good. It has nothing to do with men or seduction. If I feel good about my hair than I feel good about myself and I can seduce any man I want to not because of my hair but my positive energy and personality. Yes \\\'good grooming\\\' counts but I wont do it because
2"u dont undastand-cont." at Friday, 28 November 2008 10:17
Yes, good grooming counts but I wont do it because u want me to. I will do it because it makes me feel good. I will buy a red weave because I think I look good in it not because I think a guy will find me attractive. Its all about me. Dont dissect the subject so scientifically. That is so old school. Todays woman wants to express her creativity and uniqueness, and whether or not anyone likes how she looks she is free to be who she wants to be. We are tired of being made to feel inferior because we dont look as good as so and so in a perm or whatever. So women feel free to be whoeva!
3"cont" at Friday, 28 November 2008 10:24
Lastly, I find your article quite offensive to people, such as myself, who have short hair and look absolutely fabulous. I will not wear a wig just because kenyan men like that silky jungu hair. I am black , I have kinky hair and God made me this way. I will wear it, as kinky as it is the way I want to thank you very much!
4"raw material for weaves" at Saturday, 17 March 2012 18:06
hi ,pls do you have any idea where i can get the raw material for weaves and extensions
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