Life Lessons...MJ's Death - David Kuria | Print |  E-mail

Image King of Pop’s gone! He’s no longer with us. It’s a sad day, I know. I feel you. Truth be told there might never be another like Michael Jackson. So if you are anything like me I bet you are quite enjoying watching his music videos and engaging in conversation about him. Chances are you’re also enjoying seeing the images the media is now showing us of him. Energetic. Perfect complexion. Full head of curly bouncy hair. And isn’t it great what their calling him now? A legend. Incomparable. The greatest entertainer that ever lived!!

Aargh!! Forgive me while I go throw up.

Not out of disrespect. I loved Michael Jackson and his music. God knows I do. Honest to God truth - I have spotted the same ringtone on my Samsung headset for the past 2 years – "Don’t Stop Till You Get Enough". Over the years I’ve bought a huge chunk of his music catalogue – I even have a Michael Jackson LP (If that doesn’t say love, I don’t know what does).

And I’d be a fool if, as a student of music, I didn’t acknowledge his well documented influence on musicians all over the world. His imprints are all over Gospel music. Think Kirk Franklin. Think J. Moss. Think Ton3x. Think Deitrick Haddon - all heavily influenced by the Gloved one. Jackson’s worked with Gospel producers Fred “Uncle Freddie” Jerkins and Rodney “Darkchild” Jerkins. He even worked with Gospel legends The Winans and Andre Crouch on the 1988 smash single Man In The Mirror (bet you didn’t know that!) In fact, as recently as three weeks prior to his death, Michael was working with Andre and twin sister Sandra on new material for an upcoming record (a meeting that spawned the rumour Michael got saved during one of their conversations. False).

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But here’s where yesterday’s dinner begs regurgitation. What would the scenario be had Michael made the news say three months ago? What images would we have seen then? Emaciated. Pale. Melanin-challenged. Asymmetrical. Nose out of joint. And what words? Wacko Jacko. Crazy. Eccentric. Lunatic. Plastic surgeon addict.

Hang on a minute. What happened there? Did I miss something? Was I in a coma the past few months and wake up to a new MJ reality? Why the sudden shift?

Maybe his death exposes a hypocrisy not just in the media, but also in our own hearts. Are we quick to build up a man’s stature and then tear down his statue? Do we celebrate people in their lives, vilify them just for kicks and in their death declare them the best thing since sliced bread? What’s wrong with the media? What’s wrong with us? Didn’t the world cheer on as Jackson was dragged through a humiliating child molestation trial (which dare I say turned out to be based on false accusations)? Didn’t we stay up late to catch British journalist Martin Bashir drag Jackson through the mud in his documentaries?

Remind me what it is we call him now. World’s best entertainer ever!
Oh my! Here comes last night’s spaghetti!

Where were all these fancy titles three months back? And all these celebrities who freely jump onto television and radio to shed tears for the man – where was their support when MJ needed them most? Their silence was defeaning! Kinda reminds me of Jesus. The crowds loved him and ate up every word he spoke. Funny, they might have been the same ones shouting “Crucify Him!” shortly after.

Please don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying the man was perfect. Far from it. His many flaws were often on display as a result of his public persona. Nor do I compare him with Jesus in any way. Still, I realise there are many valuable lessons I’m learning from his untimely death. I’m learning that the human heart can be deceptive above all things. I can never rely on it or its feelings. It leads me astray so often, making me wholeheartedly believe one reality today, and a completely different one the next. Confused about the heart, a prophet even asked “Who can understand it?” (Jeremiah 17:9). It cannot be the compass which directs my life. It’s broken. I must rely on something else. Something greater.

I also learn NEVER to live for the crowd. NEVER!! Their adoration and ululation may make me feel like a star today, but they’ll tear me down faster than Kenyan MPs raising their salaries. If I decide to live for them, I must be prepared to have them prop me up and forget all about me tomorrow. No, I choose to reject their praises. I choose to live for the things that God consistently calls me to. I focus squarely on them, and no one or nothing else. I toughen myself up to do the journey, even if I have to go the disctance all on my own. My shoulders are not being built up and strengthened so people can pat them. They are being made strong so I can carry the loads God desires me to. I must find out what God has designed me to do. And do it. I must work at it tirelessly, and never care for anyone’s applause but that of the Master.

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Here’s my prayer for me. And for you. I pray that I would find what the Master has made me for. I pray I would dig in my heels and do it, with all my might. I pray that He would give me big strong shoulders. Not so that people would pat me on them and say “Good job”, but so that I would use them to shoulder the loads He gives me with ease. I pray the cheers of others and the accolades that follow would never distract me from doing my tasks. Hey, if I get the platinum records and the sold-out concerts (or their equivalent in my totally “unmusical” life), awesome! If I don’t get them, may I still live to hear the Master say to me, “Dude, well done, you’ve been good and faithful with the little I gave you. Now here’s much more.” Won't that be something!

About The Author: David Kuria is a Mwafrika.com director, and a freelance writer on matters Christian, Media and Entertainment.

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1"friend of God"
at Thursday, 09 July 2009 22:51by vicky
Thanks for literally telling it to us in black and white. 
I pray that I can live a life full of passion and love for Abba Father, my Audience of One.
2Comment
at Friday, 10 July 2009 04:10by Mozy
Eish...freakish article...who writes like this. Love it. Never thought there'd be such interesting lessons to learn from the King.
3Comment
at Friday, 10 July 2009 07:13by Linda
Amen!
4"Mr"
at Saturday, 11 July 2009 11:54by Myke
thanks so much for that Dave,so spot on you are.As a British resident I know how bad the media is here quick to applaud success and quick to strip it off you when it comes to the crunch.What a lesson to be learnt.
5Comment
at Saturday, 11 July 2009 19:31by Judy_G
Walala, thanks davie, that article is sooo correct. And i like the prayer that you have. Wa!That has to be my prayer also.
6"Mr."
at Saturday, 11 July 2009 20:15by Richard
. (full stop) 
I love this story... props are given where they are due. Weaknesses and mistakes are talked about as well... not with the intent to slander but more with hope that we may learn from MJ failures... but best of all, we are challenged, and inspired. Not to be the best MJ, or made to focus on pleasing the masses, but instead the writer steers us up to be the best YOU that you can be. Doing it all for an audience of one... The Creator! what an AMAZING write up!! keep it up guys!!
7"DJ NASTIC"
at Saturday, 11 July 2009 20:29by maggie
that is all i had too say to people and in my mind and you have beautifully put it the way i wanted ... thank you ... use ure talents that you came here on earth with ... and GOD WILL BE THE ONLY TRUE AND HOLY PERSON TO THANK YOU TRUTHFULLY .. AMEN ...I LOVE YOU MICHAEL ... RIP .. NOT FORGETTING OUR ESIR TOO...
8"You Got It Dave"
at Saturday, 11 July 2009 23:40by Eric Munene
Point blank, 
one principle of life,do your part well,less expecting applause and always keep in mind,when the deal is so good think twice. 
And if you stay in a glass house never throw stones. 
liked MJ too but sorry and sad for what happened to him
9"ndenderu"
at Sunday, 12 July 2009 06:22by kariuki
This is great. Theres a typo in the first paragraph...."And isn’t it great what their calling him now? " They're ... 
Thanks Dave, 
Viva La Michael Jackson !
10"True that"
at Sunday, 12 July 2009 16:06by haddassah
4 ril 
dat is true. 
My hope & wish too is that in addition 2 dat prayer::- we all may live only 4 God's approval and desist from bin people approval addicts. 
& dat also we maybe 4 ril Christians 
BUT NOT PHONY Christians.
11"NICE"
at Monday, 13 July 2009 12:40by Sparrxx
Love the article and I sooo agree with you.
12"MJ"
at Monday, 13 July 2009 15:41by edward onchari
this article literally brought me back to mwafrika.com after a long time... its well thought and makes a lot of sense more in this time and age!!
13Comment
at Tuesday, 14 July 2009 07:36by Nabbz
Totally hit the nail on the head... many are they who victimized the fellow when all was wrong so y pretend after his passing that he was an icon... he had his flaws and unfortunately they stood out more than his accomplishments...
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at Tuesday, 14 July 2009 15:10by Peter K
Kuria, please don't throw up...lol...we're on your side. And ati the Winans sang with MJ? There's a lot to learn from you. Fantastic article bwana. Very nice. And a lot to think about too.
15"Entartainer"
at Wednesday, 15 July 2009 13:07by Neema
Absolutely moving. Also otherwise depressing to realize the sink hole syndrome of a public life. Well said.
16"On Point"
at Wednesday, 15 July 2009 14:29by Mark
This article is on point!!! I am so one of them who victimized him and yet talked so well of him after his death ..thanks for reminding us
17Comment
at Wednesday, 15 July 2009 14:53by K. Maina
Nice Article...Every thing happens for a reason... 
Mungu akubariki
18Comment
at Thursday, 16 July 2009 09:28by Zipo5
I am an upcoming artist and i can truly resonate with what you have said about living for the crowds. They can lie to you very badly. God nihelp. nataka kulive for you and your appreciation pekee. Only you!! 
 
(I also learn NEVER to live for the crowd. NEVER!! Their adoration and ululation may make me feel like a star today).
19Comment
at Sunday, 26 July 2009 13:21by James Utu
It is quite true that if we live upon public acknowledgement,we will eventually wilt when they withdrew it.The passion in my heart is to eventually have my Father tell me,Ye FAITHFUL servant welcome.The servants in the parable given by Jesus were rewarded for their FAITHFULLNESS but not for spectacular results.God bless u.Amen
20"MASS COMM STUDENT AT MMU"
at Friday, 16 October 2009 14:55by PRISTONE MAMBILI
We do learn from mistakes and change for the better so my lesson learnt from the life of MJ is that we should live to please non other than the Almighty God coz He has our lives in His palms.We should also avoid being tomb stones-they only say good things about someone after he or she dies.Let praise people for the good things they do while they are still alive.
 
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